Your Spouses KIDS

I have a few questions about your KIDS respecting the person you are in a relationship with. 1st should your kids be allow to call your mate by their first name with no Mr. or Ms.?? Should the option of that Mr. or Ms. be to be removed be give to the individual? Or at what age is it appropriate? Is it OK if your Dad is 55 and dating a woman  for you to call her just Betty? I mean am to respect starts from how you address a person correct?

If you hear or see your kids getting out of line with your mate is it then their job to correct the behavior or do you laugh and let it go? Honestly how are we raising our kids these days? Are the teachings and values NONE exciting anymore? Or should your mate make it a point to be respected? So i was raised in the south where everybody was Mr., Mrs. or Ms. and still to this day! Unless they say "boy you don't have to call me that" I believe that respect starts with the first HELLO. Because their able to call their friends Mike. John, Steve, Gary why and what makes them different if their calling YOU Betty or Matthew? Teach your kids VALUE.